Signs of Gaslighting

Raging at you for an honest question

Denying what happened

Twisting the story

Refusing to talk about an important topic

Reversing the discussion to what you did wrong

Shaming you for bringing something up

Accusing you of something wild you're not doing

Denying responsibility for their actions

Playing the victim

Telling you you're lazy because you missed one spot when you cleaned(and they never clean)